Decoding the Soul

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Author: Jelena Đorđević

A handbook for systemic constellations and systemic self-exploration

Dr Jelena ĐorđevićPhD in Human Resource Development and Master of Psychology

Decoding the Soul reveals the hidden patterns and deep dynamics of family systems that shape our lives. Through a synthesis of systemic constellations, science and spirituality, this book offers concrete tools for self-exploration and for healing the past that shapes our present. As a practical guide, this book helps you free yourself from the burden of past experiences, find inner peace and discover your authentic strength, opening the way to true transformation.

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Table of contents

1. INTRODUCTION11
2. SYSTEMIC CONSTELLATIONS19
2.1. GIVING AND RECEIVING20
2.1.2. BASIC PRINCIPLES OF GIVING AND RECEIVING20
2.1.2.1. Gratitude for life20
2.1.2.2. Consequences of imbalance in giving and receiving21
2.1.3. THE HIERARCHY OF GIVING AND RECEIVING21
2.1.3.1. The balance of giving and receiving: giving in order to receive22
2.1.3.2. The asymmetry of giving and receiving: giving for the sake of giving23
2.1.3.3. Disturbed balance24
2.1.4. SYSTEMIC BALANCING25
2.1.4.1. Responsibility for guilt26
2.1.4.2. Entanglement26
2.1.4.3. The need for balancing27
2.1.4.4. Healing: returning the burden to the ancestors27
2.2. PARTNER RELATIONSHIPS28
2.2.1. GIVING AND RECEIVING IN PARTNER RELATIONSHIPS28
2.2.2. DADDY'S GIRLS AND MAMA'S BOYS29
2.2.2.1. Projection of parental roles31
2.2.2.2. The need for a true partnership dynamic31
2.2.2.3. The role of the third person32
2.2.3. THE LOVE TRIANGLE32
2.2.3.1. Resolving forbidden loves in systemic constellations33
2.2.4. FORBIDDEN LOVES36
2.2.4.1. Psychological effects of forbidden loves36
2.2.4.2. Manifestations in the partner relationships of descendants37
2.2.4.3. Examples from practice38
2.2.4.4. Resolving forbidden loves in systemic constellations38
2.2.4.5. Completing the constellation and reintegration into the family system40
2.2.5. DECEPTIONS AND BETRAYALS IN LOVE42
2.2.5.1. Psychological effects of deception and betrayal42
2.2.5.2. Manifestations in the partner relationships of descendants42
2.2.5.3. Examples from practice43
2.2.5.4. Resolving deception and betrayal in systemic constellations44
2.2.5.5. Completing the constellation and reintegration into the family system45
2.2.6. WHEN A RELATIONSHIP HAS COME TO AN END46
2.2.6.1. Emotional exhaustion and loss of connection47
2.2.6.2. Differences in life paths and values47
2.2.6.3. Insurmountable emotional barriers48
2.2.6.4. Self-knowledge and personal growth48
2.2.6.5. Resolving the end of a relationship49
2.2.6.6. The process of separation51
2.3.PARENTS AND CHILDREN52
2.3.1. GIVING FOR THE SAKE OF GIVING53
2.3.1.1. Blind love53
2.3.1.1.1.Causes of blind love54
2.3.1.1.2. Consequences of blind love54
2.3.1.1.3. Overcoming blind love55
2.3.2. PREGNANCY AND CHILDBIRTH55
2.3.2.1. Birth trauma in systemic constellations56
2.3.3. ENERGETIC IMBALANCE BETWEEN PARENTS AND CHILDREN58
2.3.3.1. Not accepting the parents59
2.3.3.2. Inappropriate giving60
2.3.3.3. Inappropriate taking61
2.3.4. CHILDREN IN THE SYSTEM: UNDERSTANDING AND HEALING63
2.3.4.1. Emotional hunger or separation trauma64
2.3.4.2. The feeling of punishment: children who survived66
2.3.4.3. Excessive ambition: unwanted children67
2.3.4.4. Powerlessness and anger: children conceived through rape68
2.3.4.5. The feeling of lower worth: unacknowledged children69
2.3.4.6. The feeling of abandonment: children without parents70
2.3.4.7. Adopted children71
2.3.4.8. Descendants bound to the death of loved ones73
2.4. MONEY AND WELL-BEING74
2.4.1. PASSING OFF SOMEONE ELSE'S CHILDREN76
2.4.2. SEIZING PROPERTY78
2.4.2.1. Healing actions in constellations80
2.4.3. TAKING THROUGH ONE'S PROFESSION81
2.4.3.1. Healing practices82
2.5. ILLNESS AND DEATH82
2.5.1. In the case of murder82
2.5.2. In the case of suicide84
2.5.3. In the case of abortion85
2.5.4. In the case of miscarriage86
2.5.5. In the case of children who died early86
3. SYSTEMIC SELF-EXPLORATION89
3.1. MAGIC FORMULAS OR HEALING SENTENCES89
3.2. FROM MAGIC FORMULAS TO SYSTEMIC SELF-EXPLORATION91
3.2.1. Key steps of transformation91
3.2.2. The process of self-exploration91
3.2.3. Activating the subconscious91
3.2.4. Self-regulation and empowerment92
3.3. LIMITATIONS OF SYSTEMIC CONSTELLATIONS92
3.3.1. Frequency of sessions93
3.3.2. Individual needs for independent work93
3.3.3. Relying on the therapist94
3.4. THE IMPORTANCE OF TRANSFORMING THE MIND94
3.4.1. The role of self-exploration in the transformation of the mind95
3.4.2. The process of disidentification95
3.4.3. The importance of completing the process with presence exercises .. 96 3.5. INTRODUCTION TO RELEASING THROUGH SYSTEMIC SELF-EXPLORATION97
3.6. SYSTEMIC SELF-EXPLORATION AFTER CONSTELLATIONS98
3.7. RELEASING PERSONAL BURDENS101
3.7.1. The energy system103
3.7.2. The emotional system105
3.7.3. Working on your own issue through systemic self-exploration107
3.8. RELEASING POLARITY107
3.8.1. Becoming aware108
3.8.2. Dramatization109
3.8.3. Releasing entanglement110
3.8.4. Integrating entanglement113
3.8.5. Systemic growth114
3.8.6. Presence exercises115
3.9. RELEASING RELATIONSHIPS116
3.9.1. The relationship with yourself117
3.9.2. Releasing the relationship with the parents119
3.9.2.1. Releasing the relationship with the mother121
3.9.2.2. Releasing the relationship with the father123
3.9.2.3. Recognizing and releasing the “drama of control” in the family123
3.9.2.4. Integration of the parents128
3.9.2.5. Reprogramming relationships, concepts and beliefs129
3.9.2.6. Releasing projections130
3.9.2.7. Erasing energetic imprints131
3.9.3. Partner relationships132
3.9.3.1. The maturing of the field of marriage and family134
3.9.3.2. Giving and receiving in relationships137
3.9.3.3. Optimizing the material and financial order between partners137
3.9.3.4. Setting boundaries138
3.9.4. Ancestral release139
3.9.4.1. The fundamental life drama140
3.9.4.2. Healing the family system141
3.9.4.3. Resolving a family drama143
3.9.4.4. The family curse144
3.9.4.5. The right to belong and to belonging145
3.9.4.6. Releasing the mental address: freedom146
3.9.4.7. Ancestral burden as a source of illness147
3.9.4.8. Addiction disorders149
3.9.4.9. Sexuality and sexual dysfunctions150
3.10. THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLE151
3.10.1. The feminine principle152
3.10.1.1. Releasing the feminine principle153
3.10.1.2. Releasing the feminine principle through roles154
3.10.1.3. Releasing the feminine principle through material value155
3.10.1.4. Becoming aware of value and potential156
3.10.2. The masculine principle157
3.10.2.1. Man is the Creator159
3.10.2.2. The principle of active energy160
3.11. TURNING MAGIC FORMULAS INTO PROCESSES OF SYSTEMIC SELF-EXPLORATION162
4. IN PLACE OF A CONCLUSION173
5. ABOUT ME175

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Author: Dr Jelena Đorđević
Series: The Path of Systemic Development
Number in series: Book IV
Number of pages: 184
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011. IntroductionFree preview

Series The Path of Systemic Development

Books

Soul CodesBook I

Codes of LoveBook II

Codes of SuccessBook III

Decoding the SoulBook IV

Codes of ConsciousnessBook V

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